A Strong Character
This message was contributed by Steve Brunkhorst. Steve publishes Achieve! Ezine , an excellent weekly online newsletter that will inspire you and renew your spirit. You’ll find a link to his web site at the end of his essay.
– Jeff Keller
A Strong Character
Contributed by Steve Brunkhorst
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Character and Conduct
Conduct is what we do; character is what we are.
Conduct is the outward life; character is the life unseen, hidden within, yet evidenced by that which is seen.
Conduct is external, seen from without; character is internal–operating within.
Character is the state of the heart; conduct is its outward expression.
Character is the root of the tree; conduct is the fruit it bears.
- E. M. Bounds
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Character, as we usually think of it, is a temporary collection of personality traits which we develop during our time on earth. This is the character we build with each choice in our lives, and it reflects our deepest values through our actions.
At the spiritual level, we have a much broader character that can also grow; and, unlike the character of human personality, it can continue to grow stronger eternally. It is by handling the challenges of life in ways that make character strong, that we also grow stronger spiritually.
Why build a strong character, and how can we do that?
A strong character in daily life is a positive influence upon others. However, our character also influences our own lives, often unseen, moment by moment, for our inner state determines our actions, attitudes, and ultimate growth.
Emerson once wrote, “The force of character is cumulative.” He was referring not only to the influence of character upon others, but of the expansion created in one’s own spirit–in that “state of the heart” that E. M. Bounds mentioned in today’s nugget.
Here are ten ways that will help to build a strong character…
1. Practice patience when those around you are hurried.
2. Act with faith and diligence when others show mistrust or lack of commitment.
3. Be gentle when you meet with cruelty and harsh temperament.
4. Be courteous, even when others do not show courtesy.
5. Give generously to those who have nothing to give.
6. Communicate peace to those who are saddened or anxious.
7. Express gratitude for every experience and person you have known.
8. Act with self-control when dealing with those who are out of control.
9. Be encouraging to those who are discouraged.
10. Act with self-discipline, even when it is difficult to take correct actions.
All life experiences invite us to grow in spirit. In each circumstance, God’s will is working to teach us about the ultimate state of love from which he created us to be unique individuals. May you experience the peace and love in His gift of a strong and lasting character.
Wishing you blessings and success!
Steve Brunkhorst
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